I'm worried about my little sister Ella. Mally and I are not good influences on her... at all. Ella is 7 years old and already swears, i think the first word she learned how to spell (and actually remember it) was poop (she was 5 then)too. I'm worried about how she's going to grow up. I'm like the worst sister ever, i never pay any attention to her, and i teach her bad things. She's going to be evil by the time she goes into double digits.
Another thing is, she thinks she's fat, she's 7 and she thinks she's fat. That makes my heart feel sad. When i try to talk to her about it, she doesn't listen. I think Mally is putting some bad things in her head, after all, she hangs out with her way more than i do.
One thing that isn't my fault however, is she's totally obsessed over TV and bad foods. And she's the laziest person i know, wait, i take that back, she's not the laziest (but close).
I'm just feeling apprehensive? or scared? i dont know. but i'm feeling something bad about what she's going to turn into.
Mally i'm not worried about as much as Ella. Although i tell her crap i shouldn't as well.
I really need to stop doing that! I'm ruining my sisters!!!!! :'(
Do you think they'll be ok? Or will they grow up a bit messed up?
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My sister is like that too.
You should talk to her about being fat. I told my sister that if she would eat less junk food and play outside more that she wouldnt grow up to be fat.
You should really work on being a better influence to her. I mean that in the best way, lol. The thing is, is that little kids REALLY look up to their older sibs and take their advice and copy everything they do because they think its cool. By swearing and saying stuff that maybe a little kid shouldnt hear, you might have an effect on her lifestyle.
It was like that before with me. I would be mean to my little sister, so she in turn would be mean to my other sister. I asked her why, and she said that she thought it was ok because I did it too.
Its really important how you act. Not just towards little kids either. Even your friends will be influenced by the way you act eventually. (Look at me and "just kidding" for an example...lol) Thats why you should really watch how you act, and try to be the best influence you can be.
I'm not saying you are a bad person or anything. Haha, don't talk this the wrong way. I don't think you are a bad influence. But maybe with your little sister (maybe Mally too..) you could inprove the way you act. You don't want to end up feeling guilty. I felt super guilty when my sister told me she thought it was ok to be mean to other people because I was mean to her lol....I tried immediately to start beign nice to her and saying that it wasn't ok.
Also, you can't get her to change right away...influencing takes a really long time. Eventually your work pays off though. ;)
Thank you so much Tori! I realize that now, and i'm really going to try to be better! thank you thank you thank you for the advice! I swear, you have the best advice ever!
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